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You Might Be A Stalker
If....
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Okay, so you wanted to
know what your boyfriend or girlfriend was doing last night. And you
needed to go to the grocery store anyway, so you thought
since you were 'in the neighborhood', you would just drive by his or
her house. Or you called your new love and he or she didn't call you
back. So you called again. And then again. And then several more
times. Could you be a stalker?
We all hear stalker stories and see stalker movies,
but, for some reason, we never think it applies to us. But, hey,
I've done and you've probably done it too, so let's just be real!
What is a stalker? A stalker is typically defined as someone
who is overly concerned with someone else's behavior. This 'concern'
leads them to play an intrusive role (seen or unseen) in that
person's life. Here are some signs that you might be a stalker:
1. You drop or drive by someone's house uninvited;
2. You 'stake out' that
person's house to see who shows up;
3. You go out on a 'search' mission to find out where someone is;
4. You call (with your
number blocked) and hang up;
5. You call someone repeatedly until that person answers;
6. You write anonymous
letters; 7. You
'show up' at that person's job unexpectedly;
8. You go through someone's
belongings; 9. You
read someone's text messages, letters or phone book entries; or
10. You show up places you
know that person will be.
If you are a stalker or have been a stalker, it's okay!
Admit it to yourself now and then stop being one. You are much too
valuable to waste yourself pursuing someone who does not want you.
Stop today. Live your own life! The next time you want to drive by
that person's house, don't! The next time you start to call that
person, don't! If you are in a real relationship with someone, let
them call you or let them come by your house. And then find out what
it's like to have someone chase you instead of the other way around!
Be Blessed!
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